Children are fascinated by animals, and rightly so. Animals can teach children about science, friendship and love. It seems natural that many children beg their parents for a pet early in life. Having a pet can teach them a great amount of responsibility; however, it is the parent’s responsibility to choose the correct pet for their child. With so many choices out there, here are some good tips on how to make the right choice.
1) Research different types of pets and evaluate your child’s interests. Dogs, cats, guinea pigs, fish and even reptiles can make good first pets depending on how mature your child is and the type of role they will be able to play in taking care of the animal. If your child is old enough, ask them to do research too. Take them to the library, help them do searches online and have them report their findings back to you.
*Did you know that exotic pets such as chinchillas, sugar gliders, hedgehogs, ferrets and many birds require specialized handling, food, vet care and an expertise that is acquired through years of experience? These are not good 1st time pets for kids.
2) Once your research is done, determine what amount of work your child will be able to contribute to the care of the pet. Can they take a dog for a walk? Scoop a cat litter pan? Clean out a hamster cage? Or are they only old enough to feed an animal? Once you decide what level of work they are able to do, you must decide how much YOU are willing to do. Keep in mind, that whatever your child can’t do, will fall back to you. How much do you have time for?
3) Also remember that children often lose interest in their new pet over time. They also may become involved in more school activities, sports or other things that keep them from giving their pet all the care and attention it needs. If this is the case, you are responsible for providing the pet with a happy and healthy life. Remember this when choosing the pet.
4) How much are you willing to spend? Hamsters will cost about $100 for all the supplies you need to get started and cost little to maintain. On the other hand, a reptile may cost several hundred for special heating and lighting elements. A dog will require much more with needed vaccines, regular vet checkups, training classes, toys, food, grooming and more. Make sure you are willing to budget in the daily/monthly and annual cost of your new pet for the lifetime of the pet. 5) What type of interaction do you want your child to have with the pet? Dogs, cats, ferrets and other small animals require hours of hands on attention every day. Your child will be in direct contact with the pet. They must be at an age to understand how to pet gently and give positive attention to the animal. If they are not old enough for this, you may want to consider a caged animal such as a fish or hamster.
6) Are there any allergies in the family? If so, pick a hypoallergenic pet. Fish, reptiles and many breeds of dogs and cats fit into this category.
7) How long will the pet live? Pets are a lifetime commitment. Make sure that you discuss this with the entire household and you are ready to care for the animal until it passes. A hamster or gerbil may only live 2-4 years, but certain species of birds can live well into their 80’s and 90’s!
8) Smaller is not necessarily better! Hamsters and gerbils are a very common first pet; however, they are usually not the best choice. It takes them time to become accustomed to being held. Prior to that your child may suffer many bites. They are also hard to hold on to…small children tend to squeeze too hard or drop the pet which can injure or even kill them. There are other small animals that are easier to handle like a guinea pig. If your child insists on a hamster or gerbil, consider not allowing your child to handle them.
9) Once you decide on a pet, be ready and willing to purchase all the necessary supplies for the animal. Skimping on supplies to avoid a large initial bill is not in the best interest of the animal. To make the animal’s life healthy and happy and to teach responsibility to your child, purchase everything you need as soon as you pick out your new family member.
10) The last thing to consider is where find your pet. There are many abandoned animals, including birds, reptiles and even mice, available for adoption in shelters across the country that would make wonderful pets. If you decide to purchase an animal from a pet store or breeder, make sure that they are reputable. Get recommendations from friends or family and research them first.
Above all, remember that once you choose your pet, it is part of the family. Learn all you can about the animal, take care of it properly and foster the type of loving, responsible care that your child can offer your new family member.